Day 6

Day 6

Dear Stylelife Challenger,

Here is your Stylelife Challenge Assignment for July 6.


TASK 1

Make sure you shower, shave, and feel good before you leave the house today. Play your favorite CD at high volume if necessary. If you purchased any new items yesterday, put them on. Try not to touch yourself.

Over the course of the day, give five women spontaneous compliments about a specific attribute. At least four of these compliments should be given to women who you do not previously know.

Avoid general compliments (such as “you’re beautiful” or “you’re hot”) and anything that could be construed as sexual. Instead, focus on specific compliments, which can range from her nails to her shoes to her posture.

Leave after the compliment, unless she continues the conversation. The most common response you receive will be a sincere, polite, or dismissive thank you.

The key is to not be seen as trying to flatter her or hit on her, but to show sincere appreciation of something about her that you spontaneously noticed.

You can listen to our man Rourke generating spontaneous compliments in the field here:

Today's Mission

NOTE: Although giving compliments is not part of a “standard approach,” this exercise is designed to help overcome approach anxiety and to improve your observation skills, especially after undergoing the rigorous self-examination on yourself yesterday.


TASK 2

Read the following pdf on openers:

A Brief Introduction To Openers


TASK 3

Listen to the following conversation I had with Lovedrop, a top Mystery Method instructor. Though the audio is obscured at times by passing cars and planes, the content is worth sharing; it documents the creation of a workable opener on the spot. Something you’ll be doing in Task 3.

You can hear it here:

Opener Generation Example


TASK 4

Now generate your own original opener, and post it in the newly added message group titled OPENERS.

Though the pdf discusses all types of openers, we will be focusing on scripted, indirect openers that can work in any situation.


TASK 5

Throughout the day, look through the OPENERS message board and give a QUALITY POINT to each of your THREE favorite openers.


NOTE: If at any point during these assignments, you arrange for a future meeting with a woman you’ve approached, then by all means go on that date. After your meeting with her, add your field report to the WINNER’S CIRCLE discussion board. Then congratulate yourself: You’ve won the Stylelife Challenge. Feel free to continue to do the assignments afterward – they can only help you get more dates.