Day 7

Friday, July 07, 2006

Day 7

Dear Stylelife Challenger,

Here is your Stylelife Challenge Assignment for July 7.


TASK 1

Download and read the following PDF, collecting a dozen of the Stylelife Openers all of you posted

Your Openers

TASK 2

There are two main keys to delivering an opener successfully. My Mystery Method pal Lovedrop shares them with you here:

Tips On Opening

TASK 3

Choose two of your favorite openers from the pdf. If you prefer an opener that you posted but isn't included, you may field-test that as one of your openers.

Then follow these pointers to committing them (and anything else in the future) to memory:

Memorizing Openers


TASK 4

Make sure you shower, shave, and feel good before you leave the house today. Play your favorite CD at high volume if necessary. If you purchased anything new on Day 5, put it on.

Approach five different women today (in the street, at a café, at a bar, in the mall, in an elevator, wherever) and deliver the openers you memorized.

It is not necessary to continue the conversation afterward.

When the conversation about the opener ends, you may exit with a line such as, “Thanks, I appreciate it. Pleasure meeting you.”

It is not necessary to have five successful interactions; just five approaches. In future assignments, we will be adding extra pieces to your opening game that will greatly increase its effectiveness.


TASK 5

At home tonight, make a list of the approaches you did today.

If any went well, write down the reasons why you believe they worked. If any went poorly, write down why you believe they didn’t work.

Now go back over the list. Any place where you blame someone else (ie, “she was walking too fast,” “she was stuck-up,” “she wasn’t really my type anyway,” “the guy she was with was an asshole”), cross it out and replace it with a suggestion for what you could have done differently to make the approach more successful.

It is recommended that you list your approaches and your self-assessment on the Stylelife Challenge message board, so that the moderators and your fellow Challengers can give you feedback.