Day 8

Saturday, July 08, 2006

Day 8

Dear Stylelife Challenger,

Here is your Stylelife Challenge Assignment for July 8th.

Today we are going to learn some subtleties to making your approaches more effective and successful.


TASK 1

Listen to the following audio lesson on anticipating and defusing objections to approaches:

Strategies For A Successful Approach



TASK 2

Go out and approach five women or groups that include women today with the openers you used yesterday.

This time, make certain that you add both a root and a time constraint (as explained in Task 1) to each approach.


TASK 3

When you return home tonight, ask yourself if you noticed anything different about the way the women you approached today responded in comparison with your first time using these openers yesterday.

If you noticed any difference, share it in the forums on the main Challenge Discussion board.


TASK 4


Get an insight into the dating world, mating options, and male courtship strategies from a female perspective.

I posted two personal advertisements online earlier this week. They both contained similar headlines and text. Except with one I included a picture of an unattractive woman; with the other I included a picture of an attractive woman.

You can see the responses they elicited here:

Personals Experiment

As you read them, try to put yourself in the minds of these women as they attempt to select a potential mate from among these suitors. (Side note: One of the responses actually appears to be from a guy in the community laying on too much material at once.)

What does this tell you about the qualities and characteristics you want to convey and the ones you want to avoid when approaching a woman?

Feel free to share the thoughts and insights you have while reading the responses in the Challenge Discussion forum.

Note: Do not compare yourself physically or financially to the men in these responses; studies have confirmed that most are exaggerating their looks, height, occupation, and position in society.