Day 16

Sunday, July 16, 2006

Day 16

Dear Stylelife Challenger,

Here is your Stylelife Challenge Assignment for July 16th.

Today you’re going to learn how to demonstrate higher value.

So far you’ve learned to approach a woman and begin a conversation. You’ve even learned how to continue that conversation with a few questions and stories.

But what next?

She has the possibility of meeting any number of guys. Why should she want to see you again?

Today, you are going to give her a reason. And you are going to do that by standing out from all the other guys. You are going to teach her something about herself, by combining the cold-reading lesson you learned on Day 14 with the exercise in non-neediness you learned yesterday into…


TASK 1

Enjoy the following presentation on The Ring Finger Routine:

DHV Of the Day

Listen to it as many times as you need to and take notes, until you feel that you can confidently perform it yourself. I recommend taking a small piece of paper and writing down what God and trait each finger represents. Carry this with you for…


TASK 2

Today, you are going to add the ring finger pattern to your stack of material.

Go to a café, bar, park, mall, or museum and start a conversation using one of the Stylelife Challenge Openers.

Afterward, as in day 11, pretend as if you’re about to leave, then spontaneously notice the ring on her finger and transition into the routine you learned in Task 1.

Don’t forget that if she is with friends, you want to make sure that they are included in the conversation.

Here is one way to introduce it after turning back to her: “I have to ask before I run, Why did you chose to wear that ring on that particular finger….Interesting…I have a friend who’s a spiritual type, and she just told me that like the finger you choose to wear your rings on says something about your personality…”

Also, if she is not wearing any rings, just ask instead, “Out of curiosity, and I’ll explain why I’m asking in a second, what finger do you usually wear your rings on?” or “…if you were to wear a ring, and it wasn’t a wedding ring obviously, what finger would it be on?”

Her reaction to your routine doesn’t matter. Whether she is fascinated or bored, you are solely doing this to practice demonstrating higher value – so as long as you’re saying it and she’s still standing there, you’re completing the task.

However, if she is interested, now is the time to practice your cold-reading lines. Try to slip one or two into each performance of the routine.

After you have practiced the ring finger routine on three separate women, your mission is complete.

NOTE: If you would like to experiment with other value-demonstrating routines, check the Cold Reading forum. Several Challengers have posted ESP and psychic routines in there, though not all of them are easy to learn in a day. You will receive a pdf with the best lines tomorrow.

Don't Forget: If you get your date early, make sure you share it with your fellow Challengers and stake your claim in the Winner’s Circle. There have been several date reports posted to other forums accidentally.