Day 15

Saturday, July 15, 2006

Day 15

Dear Stylelife Challenger,

Here is your Stylelife Challenge Assignment for July 15th.

You have only one task today.

The reason why is this: It is that important.

It is a piece that you have most likely not read about, heard about, or even imagined was part of the game. It is also subtle, and will require to some degree the people and cold-reading skills you have learned thus far.

It is the piece that differentiates those who fail at the game from those who succeed – even though both may be saying the exact same thing.

It is the piece that will keep you from becoming a social robot.

It is also simple and basic.


TASK 1

Watch the following video presentation, then go out and perform the exercise suggested:

Do Unto Others

WARNING:

Some people think that success with women requires NOT being a nice guy. It sometimes seems like women always go for assholes, jerks, and bad boys.

But that's not true: the dichotomy isn't between nice and mean or good and bad. It's between weak and strong.

So you can still be nice, but you must also be strong.

Don't mistake being weak for being nice.

So when you do this exercise, remember: You are not seeking anyone's approval. Instead, you are giving them yours.


BONUS

Congratulations for taking today’s step toward being a more genuine person who other people enjoy being around. Here’s a cold-reading cheat sheet to help you review yesterday’s ebook:

Cold-Reading Pocket Guide