Day 11

Tuesday, July 11, 2006

Day 11

Dear Stylelife Challenger,

Here is your Stylelife Challenge Assignment for July 11th.

Today is one of the most important days of the Challenge. Now that you have worked on your tonality, your body language, and your appearance, it’s time to take a look at your identity and inner game.


TASK 1

Download and listen to the following audio critique of Stylelife Challenger Grinder63’s Day 10 Approaches and Day 11 Identity Exercise:

Challenge Coaching Session

[Note: Select the “FREE” option to download the audio file; it is not necessary to pay for this service.]

Alternate link: Challenge Coaching Session Streaming

TASK 2

Download and fill out the following PDF on finding and refining your identity:

Identity Building


TASK 3

Approach groups of three people or more containing at least one woman. Use an opener that contains a time constraint and a root.

However, when you’re finished with the opener, continue the conversation by adding the following movements and lines:

1. Pretend as if you’re about to leave, but take no more than one step away.

2. Look back at the group and ask, out of curiosity, “How do you all know each other?”

3. Think of one question or comment to respond with. It doesn't need to be complicated. For example, if they all say they’re friends from work, you can ask, “So where do you all work?” If two of the people are in a relationship, you can say, “No way. Congratulations. You guys look great together.”

4. You may now leave if you wish with your all-purpose closer, “Nice meeting you.”

5. You may also choose to continue talking to the group if the conversation is going well. If you do this and anyone asks you what you do for work or study in school, make sure you answer with the identity statement you created using today’s pdf. Try to use this statement in at least one of your interactions.

The task is complete after you have followed steps one through three with three groups.


TASK 4

Before you go to sleep, read this essential report on inner game by Stylelife boy wonder, JGatz:

Mastering your Inner Game


NOTE: The Winner’s Circle is officially open. Today, moderators will begin approving any field reports of dates that have been submitted.
To win: If at any point during these assignments, you arrange for a future meeting with a woman you’ve approached and she shows up, you’ve won. Just write a field report about it in the WINNER’S CIRCLE discussion board. Then congratulate yourself: You’ve won the Stylelife Challenge.
Feel free to continue to do the assignments afterward – they can only help you get more dates.